Cards for Cancer Patients
Get well soon cards for cancer patients can be pretty depressing - so we've collected a range of cancer cards with real personality. From funny cards about types of cancer to cancer treatment cards with bright, colourful designs, these cards are the perfect starting point for sending a really meaningful message to someone going through cancer treatment.


Cards for Cancer Patients FAQs
There is a lot more thought and actions into sending a card.
From the moment you’re told “you have cancer,” life can become a bit bewildering. There is usually and an influx of people calling and visiting to show their support. But often people just need a space to process the news and develop a plan. A card requires more effort than a text or email, but is less intrusive than a phone call or visit.
A good exercise before writing to someone is writing a card to yourself. What would you want to receive from that person? Short and to the point? Or long and detailed? There is no correct answer. But the term “thinking of you” can be the bane of many people with cancer, after hearing it for the hundredth time. People just want it to be acknowledged that they’ve received bad news; it will be tough, but they are supported. This can be expressed in numerous ways.
Once you've written the card adjust it for the person. For example, if they are not close, you may not know their type of humour or level of support. But if it is a close friend or relative, you’ll probably find you can to tailor the message more personally.
She had just a double mastectomy and felt rubbish. She was telling me that her daughter's boyfriend’s parents (following?) wanted to come in and visit. She had never met the parents before and was becoming quite frustrated. For you see, this patient loved to entertain, to have visitors was a large enjoyment for her.
And if she was going to host (even in hospital), she would do it properly. Her line which stayed with me forever was “why on earth would I want to see people when I don’t have my pearls on.” She could appreciate their good wishes and support, but said frankly “why can’t they just send me a card.” She relayed the message to her daughter, saying thank you for their thoughts, but she was not up for visitors at present.
This same patient was quite popular, her phone was constantly ringing. And usually just as she finally fell asleep after her pain was controlled. Her humour was amazing, and as appreciative as she was, if I was in the room, she would hang up the phone, smile politely and say “I haven’t spoken to <insert name> for 6/8/12 months, why do they think I want to talk to them while I’m feeling at my worst.”
And yes, this is just one patient's experience. And perhaps she is in the minority. But the point that is unless you know the person exceptionally well, and their preferences of contact, you may be intruding on their quiet time or causing unnecessary frustration.
But with a card, no matter how unwell the person you are writing to is, you can’t disturb them or intrude them. Merely send well wishes and support.